Abuse Closet #metoo

The abuse closet is the most secretive closet to open for the world to see. I am trying to be culturally sensitive as I open this closet. In my culture, which is West African, this is a “taboo” subject to discuss. Women who have been abused sometimes say statements like “I will never tell” or […]

All Closet Self-Reflection

Self-Refection

What are some things that have put you in a closet?A list of things found in my many life’s closets includes:A. Marital PretenseB. Abusive scarsC. Financial ups and downsD. Disqualification (for being different)E. DevaluationF. Unexplained failuresG. Shame and guilt (from the actions of others)H. Spiritual compromiseI. Frenemies Will opening up your closets to others bring […]